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Roxanne’s Reflections

After writing a column for my small town newspaper for 6 years, I want to continue sharing my reflections on life’s lessons through metaphors and analogies that are realistic and relatable.

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Redefining Success: Beyond Ratings and Labels
  • Roxanne
  • September 7, 2024September 7, 2024

Redefining Success: Beyond Ratings and Labels

These labels, ratings, and scores have me reeling a bit. I’ve had to shift my perspectives and adjust my expectations. It is a challenge to accept a 3 as successful rather than average or neutral

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My Sunglasses Collection: Seeing the world through different lenses 
  • Roxanne
  • August 17, 2024August 17, 2024

My Sunglasses Collection: Seeing the world through different lenses 

I own three pairs of sunglasses, each offering a unique view of the world. One pair, designed for water, has blue lenses that reduce glare and tine everything slightly blue. Another pair has browni

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Offering gratitude for what didn’t happen
  • Roxanne
  • May 25, 2024May 25, 2024

Offering gratitude for what didn’t happen

How many times in my life do I complain about what is when I have neglected to consider how grateful I could be for what isn’t?

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Building something new requires that life gets messy for a while
  • Roxanne
  • May 3, 2024May 3, 2024
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Building something new requires that life gets messy for a while

Whether just starting something new or in the middle of the process, the mess is inevitable. Building something new requires that life gets messy for a while; however the benefit of the end result

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What are you counting: the good or the difficult?
  • Roxanne
  • April 21, 2024April 21, 2024

What are you counting: the good or the difficult?

This is an important truth of which to be reminded. There is goodness and mercy available to us all the days of our lives. It’s all about the perspective we have and whether we are counting the g

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Do you ever think, “This is too hard, I quit!”?
  • Roxanne
  • March 9, 2024March 9, 2024
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Do you ever think, “This is too hard, I quit!”?

This blog is being written later than usual because I felt like I didn’t have anything positive to share. Hiding, disengaging, and running away felt safer, easier and more appealing.

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Let the words roll like water off a duck’s back
  • Roxanne
  • February 29, 2024February 29, 2024
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Let the words roll like water off a duck’s back

Interestingly, a duck has a gland near its tail that secretes a wax-like, oily substance. As the duck uses its bill to spread the substance over its feathers, it creates a water-resistant coating.

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Sometimes life feels a bit like snow.
  • Roxanne
  • January 25, 2024January 25, 2024
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Sometimes life feels a bit like snow.

Sometimes life feels a bit like snow. At times it can be light and fluffy. Other times it can feel sharp and biting. It’s beautiful when it is a freshly fallen pristine white. The glimmer is mesm

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Who do you shine your light for?
  • Roxanne
  • December 20, 2023December 20, 2023
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Who do you shine your light for?

Driving through the darkness of night in the backroads of Nebraska, I am amazed to find a farmhouse and yard lit up with Christmas lights. Brilliant colors dazzle along the fence line or outline th

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The One That Wasn’t Printed
  • Roxanne
  • November 22, 2023November 29, 2023
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The One That Wasn’t Printed

I’m learning my lesson from the turkeys this holiday season. There is more than meets the eye. My perceptions and assumptions don’t tell the whole story, so I’ll care enough to ask questions

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