I was recently reminded of this truth when my daughter was out of town for a few days. A small crew of us stepped in to care for her two-month old and toddler, each of us taking different roles. It was amazing to watch how seamlessly we worked together, united by a common purpose–caring for these two little ones. When she returned, she found healthy, happy babies and gained a deeper appreciation for the commitment of her community.
A lesson in togetherness
Not long after, I helped coordinate a community event for over 200 people. What would have been an impossible task for one person became a smooth, successful gathering thanks to the many hands that pitched in. I watched the dedication of those who showed up–lifting heavy loads, staying late to clean up, tending to small but important details. Every effort mattered. Every contribution made a difference. And because we worked as a team, the event became a wonderful display of our community’s heart, commitment, and shared support for what truly matters.
These experiences reinforced an important truth: no one thrives in isolation. We need each other. In the moments when I feel like a burden rests solely on my shoulders, I remember that I am surrounded by people around me who care, who want to help, and who desire to see a successful outcome. This isn’t just true for big events–it’s a lesson for everyday life.
Choosing community over isolation
Each of us plays a role in a larger system, a community. And within that system, we can choose to isolate ourselves or to reach out. The system can feel lonely, or it can provide an essential connection. We can let challenges feel overwhelming, or we can lean on those willing to share the load. We can focus only on ourselves, or we step back and consider what is best for the whole.
After caring for a newborn and hosting a gala, I feel physically exhausted. But my heart and spirit are full with the pride I feel for my community. I am grateful for the people who surround me, who show up, and who remind me that I am never alone.
Together, we are better.