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Roxanne’s Reflections

Roxanne’s Reflections

After writing a column for my small town newspaper for 6 years, I want to continue sharing my reflections on life’s lessons through metaphors and analogies that are realistic and relatable.

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Not One Way: Brushing, Rinsing, and Listening
  • Roxanne
  • February 18, 2026February 18, 2026
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Not One Way: Brushing, Rinsing, and Listening

If people close to me can hold such differing views on something as simple as rinsing after brushing, then no wonder an entire nation struggles with differing perspectives on far more complex issue

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The Story That Plays on Repeat
  • Roxanne
  • February 13, 2026February 13, 2026
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The Story That Plays on Repeat

What’s the story that plays on repeat in your mind, the one you’ve carried with you for years?

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Extending Compassion Inward
  • Roxanne
  • February 1, 2026February 1, 2026

Extending Compassion Inward

And so the vicious cycle continued–self-criticism. I realized how deeply ingrained this habit is. I am far more comfortable being hard on myself than allowing space for imperfection. I rarely per

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When Love Doesn’t Require Agreement
  • Roxanne
  • January 17, 2026January 17, 2026

When Love Doesn’t Require Agreement

I had a hard conversation with a loved one recently. We disagreed on the topic at hand. Each of us spoke freely and shared differing perspectives, but when the conversation ended, neither of us had

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An Intention for the Year Ahead
  • Roxanne
  • January 14, 2026January 14, 2026

An Intention for the Year Ahead

A new year has arrived. It is busting at the seams with potential and opportunity. I have no New Year’s resolution this year. Instead, I hold the intention to fully embrace life as it comes.

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Hands That Once Served, Now Receive
  • Roxanne
  • December 18, 2025December 23, 2025

Hands That Once Served, Now Receive

When my children come to visit, I’m surrounded by adults, my kids and their partners, who genuinely want to serve.

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The biggest dream was never on my list
  • Roxanne
  • December 11, 2025December 23, 2025

The biggest dream was never on my list

I have dreamed some big dreams in my lifetime, but none of them came true. And, I am grateful.

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A life lived in full color where every emotion belongs
  • Roxanne
  • December 6, 2025December 6, 2025

A life lived in full color where every emotion belongs

It breaks my heart that so many of us feel afraid or ashamed to cry. I’ve seen it again and again: the quick apology, the hope that no one noticed. Somewhere along the way we learned that tears m

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The habit I can’t seem to quit
  • Roxanne
  • November 26, 2025November 26, 2025

The habit I can’t seem to quit

What is an annoying habit that’s hard to quit? Biting nails, cracking knuckles, popping gum, or bouncing a leg. Habits slip in so quietly that we barely notice them, until they irritate someone e

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The Beauty in the Tangle
  • Roxanne
  • November 20, 2025November 26, 2025

The Beauty in the Tangle

I recently experienced this kind of intricate connection at a funeral in our small rural town. Though I wasn’t related by blood, I was invited through connection to be part of the family.

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