We have a new dog staying with us. Layla has a sweet side–she loves to snuggle, be petted, chase a ball and chew on a bone. She has even joined us on walks at the lake, happily trotting alongside us. But Layla also has a more challenging side. She growls and barks at our dogs, and on a few occasions, fights have broken out. Thankfully, no one has been injured, but the incidents have been scary.
Because of this, we’ve had to take action. At first, we began separating Layla from the other dogs whenever no one was home. But one person in our household, someone with an enormous heart, hated to see Layla left out. She insisted on monitoring the dogs so Layla could still be included when people were around. When my fear would have kept Layla apart from the group for good, this extended grace. She believed in giving Layla another chance and was determined to make it work.
Kindness extended
Eventually, though, further measures became necessary. After another frightening encounter, we decided Layla could no longer play with the other dogs, even when people were home. But the same person who fought for Layla’s inclusion couldn’t bear to see her isolated without intervention. She ordered a muzzle online and began patiently training her to wear it. It was one of the kindest acts of grace I’ve ever witnessed–undeserved favor extended with no expectation of personal gain. It takes patience, commitment, and love, and she does it purely out of compassion for another living creature.
Even when Layla is in isolation, this person continues to care for her. She gives Layla treats, teaches her tricks, and plays fetch with her daily. Her consistent care and concern are a stark contrast to my own feelings. I see Layla’s past actions and find myself hesitant–maybe out of fear, or perhaps an unwillingness to forgive. Either way, I hold back, even as I watch her lavish love and grace upon Layla.
An example for all
And, I can’t help but think the world could use more people like her. She is good. She is kind. She is filled with mercy. She instinctively gives others the benefit of the doubt, offering second chances without question. Her actions are a constant reminder to treat others the way we would want to be treated. It is one of the clearest, most inspiring examples of grace I’ve ever witnessed.